Don’t just transfer items that are not available at home! The top 5 behaviors of middle-aged and elderly people at home sorting out NG

It is not easy to organize and cleanse at home, especially for high-age people. It is not only caused by physical decline, but also related to some behaviors and behaviors. Japanese storage consultant asked Kawasaki to help organize the hometown of his parents and hold a storage lecture for seniors, and sort out five common NG behaviors.

NG 1: Transfer the unwanted things to someone

Sometimes I will show my friends that there are unwanted items at home, "If you need them, take them." Then I receive some unwanted things. Even if I think I don't need them, because the other party is kind, it is often difficult to refuse.

Kawasaki said that when he realized this, he would not be too easy to transfer the items to others, unless the other party really showed his sincere needs. Not all "transfers" are wrong, but they need to be handled with great care.

NG 2: Transfer high-priced items

Some middle-aged and elderly people will give high-priced clothes or jewelry heads to others. If you want to transfer them to your children or daughter-in-law on the grounds of "it's not available anyway", you also need to pay attention. It is precisely because it is a valuable item that can easily lead to uneven distribution between relatives, or because the design is too old to wear, but it is reluctant to abandon it, which makes it difficult to move forward and retreat.

NG 3: When Kawasaki helped her mother and grandmother clean up her home when she was a child, she accidentally dropped her father's advanced leader's belt because she heard her mother say "scan the unnecessary things", and she never saw her father use it, so she thought it was useless things.

To avoid this situation, it is safer to have space for valuable items or to avoid organizing when there are young children on site.

NG 4: The test picture says that people who don't want to sort out

For some people, "tidying up" means losing things and changing the storage method. This change makes them very repulsive. Some people will argue against changing the environment, and are afraid that they will not be able to figure out where to put it. At this time, no matter how just a legitimate reason is to try to serve the other party, it will only make each other's relationship more rigid. Therefore, it is best not to move to the "people who don't want to sort out".

NG 5: Excessive efforts to sort out

are actually very labor-intensive, especially for older homeowners. If you are too eager to strengthen yourself, you may become tired and sick, and instead leave the task of sorting longer. Please do what you can. Even if you lose something that you don’t need in a day and just organize the mess on the dining table, it is actually enough.

What should I do if I encounter a "person who doesn't want to sort out"?

Kawasaki's own example was that when he was sorting out his hometown, he kept saying that his father had been working together, and even tried to use the prescribed speech that he was responsible for, "If you don't sort it out, you will eat it in the end," but it was useless at all.

Later, whenever my father heard that his daughter was coming back, he began to become nervous. Finally, Kawasaki decided to give up and sort out the things belonging to his father. But just as the eighth year of sorting, my mother suddenly called and told her that her father had smeared six torn clothes, which surprised her.

It seems that as the other spaces in my hometown became more and more complete, my father began to care about Ling Lu in his own object area. The fact that Lian Guru's father was taking the initiative and slapping things was actually shocking, but there were such exceptions.

Therefore, if the family doesn't want to organize it, although they may feel anxious and angry, it is better to organize it regularly for the sake of harmony between each other.