Give yourself an opportunity to change when your life feels burned out! But you must "filter opportunities", not all opportunities are suitable for your life

Overcoming burnout method + difficulty breakthrough method

To overcome burnout, you need to choose opportunities. In the face of opportunities, whether it is a naturally formed opportunity or an opportunity to start oneself, you need to have a "opportunity alarm" in your own thinking. The

opportunity comes from two parts. First, it is natural formation, that is, motor. The second is to create it yourself, that is, to create it.

Too many people mistakenly overestimate the good things that have fallen from the sky, so that they feel disappointed in life, and their sense of burnout is therefore added. To overcome the burnout caused by opportunity decisions, you must choose opportunities carefully, because wrong airplanes are more harmful than no airplanes.

Opportunities are something that everyone wants to have. If the opportunity arrives at "error time", it will affect people's daily life and will also fight against the original pace of life. Especially when the opportunity to fall from the sky is not suitable for your characteristics, accepting the so-called opportunity at this time will increase your work burden and cause uneasiness.

The burden of people is limited, just like in a gym, the weight and strength that everyone can bear are different. However, if the training given suddenly does not progressively, it is easy to cause an incorrect method to cause you to be injured instantly.

Regarding burnout, you need to carefully filter opportunities. Burnout often occurs because there are too many things in the heart that are eager to accomplish, which leads to time constraints, which indirectly leads to fatigue in the heart.

In work and life, people need to have the ability to filter opportunities. Because opportunities will not come from heaven, opportunities will come from two parts. First, it is natural formation, that is, motor. The second is to create it yourself, that is, to create it.

However, if these two opportunities exceed the burden, they will cause work burnout, which is equivalent to causing yourself to be injured. Sometimes when people are in a state of chaos, many opportunities will be in front of them. They seem to be glorious, but in fact it is the most dangerous moment, because any wrong choice will make your choice "the last straw that will crush you."

Everyone hopes for better opportunities at work and is willing to meet all work challenges. However, some people have not carefully selected opportunities and have moved their work in the wrong direction, which has led to a situation of "one step wrong, every step wrong". Although theoretically, any chance of error is wrong, just switch to the runway. However, in fact, if you change the track, it is equivalent to everything coming from the beginning. Therefore, choosing opportunities carefully is more important than choosing errors.

The opportunity to overcome burnout is divided into

? Yes, opportunities are divided into "good opportunities" and "bad opportunities".

For good opportunities, most people tend to choose "from public" and mistakenly think that the opportunity chosen by more people is a good opportunity, which means that they have not included their own good characteristics.

Such a process can easily make it incompatible with the group value in future work, and you must force yourself to accept group cooperation with different personal values.

In fact, when it comes to work, you must remember: not all opportunities are good opportunities.

Many times, "bad events" will make people mistakenly think that good luck is coming, so they accept it without considering the consequences. Such lack of consideration may make the bad opportunity a fire-inducing line of personal failure. In the face of opportunities, you need to pay attention to the "consequences" that opportunities may come with. This also means measuring opportunities, and you must "consider crisis" in advance to find a balance between choice and action.

I once had a former classmate, a very outstanding talent. At his age, I went to Dubai's investment company and participated in the merger of many companies. At that time, his boss asked him to join the shares. With his youthful years when he first entered society, he still had some crises to become a shareholder of a large company. But at that time, he believed that the opportunity should not be lost, so he asked his family to help with the funds, hoping to seize the opportunity to become a partner in the company.

Because he was an exclusive son, his family was very happy that the solo son became a partner in the company, so his parents devoted their savings. But in just one year, the founder of that company made the company bad. My former classmate therefore made a rush to leave Dubai and live a life of scrupulous life after returning to Canada. The opportunity to invest at that time was a "bad opportunity", which made a newcomer who had just entered society bear huge debts. Becoming a partner is a good opportunity, but because of the lack of deep involvement in the past, the flow of internal money of the company was unclear. At first, there was no expectation that there would be a loss of money after the investment.

Burnout overcomes the need for "opportunities to remove bad luck"

In my past experiences, I have been forced to participate in many office politics many times, and that is the part I dislike the most. Although I am extroverted and like to talk to others, office politics is often divided into small circles, and the value of the leader of the small circle becomes the value that everyone in the small circle needs to follow.

The most common situation is: the leader of the small circle made a statement that was unfavorable to the company at the workplace, but everyone in the small circle dared not have different opinions and counter-relatives. On the surface, this situation seems to be harmonious, but I don’t know that this situation will feel rejected by the small circle in private, and gradually become less and less interested in work.

People all want to resist small circles that are different from their own value, and they also want to remove small groups that are different from their own value. However, because the small circles at work sometimes have a good effect with personal work, many people have to succumb to the small circle value in the job performance..

When you cannot resist the small circles of work with actions, you will slowly feel tired in your heart and will also reduce your enthusiasm for work quickly. To overcome burnout at this time, you must filter the chance you have identified in front of you again.

You should ask yourself carefully, is your current job suitable for you? Because of the opportunity to choose errors, if you don’t get corrected in time, you will slowly lose your creativity at work. In many cases, part of the reason why people change from liking to dislike work is due to work burnout caused by small circles of politics on the job.

At this time, you need to have a good view of the experience that will bring you. If burnout has really made you feel tired of your heart being torn, then vacation or resignation is a necessary process for repair.

filtering opportunities can maintain enthusiasm

The enthusiasm of people requires "putting themselves in the right place".

When you are in a position that cannot achieve work performance, it means that that job is not suitable for you. Not all opportunities are suitable for you in the field. To maximize your performance, you must let your abilities and passionate energy develop in the right institutions, and need to remove the continuous interference of the small circles of negative surfaces. Society is a treasure plate, and treasures suitable for others may not be suitable for you.

Therefore, when the feeling of burnout appears strongly, it is also the time for life to choose again. Because our vision does not need to go all the way to the end. When things and wishing, you can still use the "change path" to achieve the same goal.

For work opportunities, we don’t need to be too idealized, we just need to set up suitable scenery. Frustrations in life are life warnings that give people. Too much negative weight will make us stagger.

Not all people in life are suitable for taking the same path. On the same road, some people are walking smoothly, while others fall to the sky because "everyone has different opportunities for suitable opportunities." Regarding the choice of opportunities, the idea is to choose to make your abilities come true and feel safe and comfortable in the work environment. As for which path is most suitable for you, your "heart" will tell you.

The reason why opportunities are called opportunities is because there is an "indefinite" part of them. The opportunity to filter is more important than blindly investing in all opportunities. A good opportunity can make people suddenly and violently, and a bad opportunity can make people tired and painful.

Many people are properly accustomed to bad opportunities, but in the long-term effect, they will not make their lives better and better. When your life feels burned out, you must give yourself an opportunity to change, and it is not a proper way to go. If you don’t really like your current work or life, and have aggrieved and patient, you will turn your current chance into regret in the future.

※This article is excerpted from the timely newspaper’s publication “Updating Burnout: 30 Advanced Life Methods to Breakthrough Difficulties and Not Tired”